Facebook Infidelity

Facebook infidelity has become a very common source for marital unfaithfulness. It usually starts off innocently. It is normal to wonder what high school classmates and college dorm friends are now doing. It feels great to let old friends know what you’ve been doing with your life too. It is especially interesting to see what old boyfriends and girlfriends now look like, where they are living, and if they are happy. Be careful though. You may confuse falling in love with the rush of reliving your youth.

Facebook Infidelity – Looking Up An Old Flame

As you walk down memory lane through various Facebook contacts, you feel younger and more carefree. Easier days are re-experienced, favorite old songs are recalled, and anything and everything becomes once again possible. When an old romantic interest is contacted, it only takes a few emails to turn touching base with an old friend into Facebook Infidelity.

Facebook Infidelity – Falling In Love With the Old You

It is possible to learn that you did indeed marry the wrong person and should have married your one true love from high school. But it is usually far more likely that the love you are actually feeling is your longing for your youthful vitality, the absence of responsibility you once enjoyed, and the ease of knowing that anything was possible. It’s important to remember who you used to be and incorporate it with who you are today. You’re still the same person! If your marriage is boring, liven it up. If you’ve become thick around the middle, do some crunches. You are the same person you’ve always been. Just manage your responsibilities with perspective, and have fun every day.

Facebook infidelity – Be Careful

Be careful as you look up old friends, and realize that the great feelings you might be experiencing are not for another person, but rather for the feelings you felt years ago and long to feel again. Facebook infidelity is a new challenge for today’s marriages.

 

Lisa Ryan, LPC
Lisa Ryan, LPC
Relationship Expert - Infidelity Specialist - Guest Speaker ~ Loves the big blue sea, homely dogs, the unvarnished truth, and making people feel better. As an Infidelity Specialist in CT since 2002, Lisa continues to retain fairness, an enormous empathy for all clients and a desire to forge a positive outcome, with a commitment that matches that of the clients themselves. She helps couples rebuild their relationships after the discovery of an extramarital affair, a secret relationship or a technology addiction that breaches trust. She guides her clients through a 5-pronged solution-driven plan, designed by her, which has a success rate near 95%. Clients attribute their achievement to Lisa’s non-judgmental approach and genuine understanding of the unique anguish experienced by both parties when trust has been broken.

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