To be fair, in my work with couples over many years, there are people who I thought were lying and they actually were not. And there were also people I believed were truthful, who were lying the entire time.
We’ve all been there. We’ve all found ourselves looking at our boyfriend or husband knowing full well that he’s not the right guy for us. Yet we try to make the best of it. We hope things will change. We hope HE will change. We hope WE will change.