Why women date married men

At least once a week a client will ask me why women date married men.

I can’t help but believe that women wouldn’t date married men, if they knew the injury they caused.  Why women date married men can be a mystery to some. Affairs destroy marriages. Affairs divide families. Sadly, a minority of couples pursue infidelity counseling to salvage their relationships. The rest call family law attorneys.

I am here to tell you that the shattered trust in your marriage can not only be restored, it can be strengthened. So moving forward, I can explain why women date married men, perhaps even your man. That said, I really prefer you focus on your husband and your marriage. She’s not worth your time or attention.

Women date married men because the grass is always greener

Some women pursue married men because they want what someone else has already. They not only desire your husband. These people yearn for your life. They think your lifestyle is better than theirs. These women fantasize living in your house and raising your kids. They spend little time considering alimony, child support, and the scorn and judgment that often comes with the inevitable disclosure.

Fear of commitment

Though they may not be aware, women who enter into relationships with married men only want dessert. They know that dating a married man does not include raising his kids and doing his laundry. They don’t want the main course, let alone have to cook it, too. Sadly for them, though, it also does not include weekends and holidays. Affairs feel pretty lonely on Thanksgiving.

The challenge and adventure of a married man

Lastly, some women relish the hunt. They earn a bigger trophy if they bag your man rather than catch their own single and available guy. Truly, there are women out there who find it far more victorious to get a man to leave his wife and family for her. It boosts their egos to know they are worthy of such sacrifice.

Decide today to take charge of your own marriage and kick her out by calling me at 203-226-8800 or click here to reach me by email. I will do my darnedest to make certain she has nothing more to do with you.


Lisa Ryan, LPC
Lisa Ryan, LPC
Relationship Expert - Infidelity Specialist - Guest Speaker ~ Loves the big blue sea, homely dogs, the unvarnished truth, and making people feel better. As an Infidelity Specialist in CT since 2002, Lisa continues to retain fairness, an enormous empathy for all clients and a desire to forge a positive outcome, with a commitment that matches that of the clients themselves. She helps couples rebuild their relationships after the discovery of an extramarital affair, a secret relationship or a technology addiction that breaches trust. She guides her clients through a 5-pronged solution-driven plan, designed by her, which has a success rate near 95%. Clients attribute their achievement to Lisa’s non-judgmental approach and genuine understanding of the unique anguish experienced by both parties when trust has been broken.

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