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To be fair, in my work with couples over many years, there are people who I thought were lying and they actually were not. And there were also people I believed were truthful, who were lying the entire time.
Painful information is difficult to deliver. It takes courage, a plan, and a whole lot of mutual respect. But mostly courage! So be thoughtful and sensitive, but you also have to be decisive.
Most women think that what the average man is looking for today in a female partner depends on how old he is, maybe his upbringing, and perhaps even his level of education.
We’ve all been there. We’ve all found ourselves looking at our boyfriend or husband knowing full well that he’s not the right guy for us. Yet we try to make the best of it. We hope things will change. We hope HE will change. We hope WE will change.
Have you ever looked at an old snapshot or yourself and wondered who you are and where you went? If you do, you have of company. Many women are just nurturing and agreeable by nature, then one day wake up and find that they have met the needs of other people so much that they've lost sight of themselves and what they need.
When life gets rough, we have to make a choice. We can allow ourselves to be overcome by negative feelings and give up. Or we can develop effective ways to cope with any of life’s (many) obstacles.