Lots of people decide to end the relationship slowly. It’s better to rip off the Band-Aid than take weeks or months of unnecessary pressure and guilt for both of you.
Why water a dead plant?
Some people have the ability to stay friends with people they’ve been intimate with. But most don’t. So if you don’t have kids together, end it. It’s kinder, in the long run, for you to set them free to find love again. And it’s also kinder for you to be out from under the artificial commitment.
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I already know that you’ll be compassionate because you’re taking the time to read this blogpost. But remember that it is just as important to be decisive in your decision so they don’t feel played.
Sometimes good people like you have to deliver words that temporarily hurt a person you care about.
But if it’s not a good fit, be grateful for the information. Don’t squeeze your foot into a shoe that’s too tight. Find yourself a partner, once you have reclaimed your liberty, that feels comfortable.
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