July 2013 - Page 3 of 3 - Advocacy Circle
The first thing you have to do is make sure you won't be betrayed twice. You must find out all you need to know about the betrayal, in order to try and trust your spouse again. Be careful not to ask for too many facts, as details are hard to get out of your mind. But find out the summary of events, the players, and who knew about it while you did not.
Your wife may be having an affair if she never parts with her cell. She may be secretive when she reads text messages, with a newly found interest in her privacy. If she has a new password, beware. She will also delete texts and emails when she never used to bother before. Her cell phone will be taken into the bathroom if your wife is cheating on you.
Save a marriage? It's like rowing a boat. It takes the work of two people, or soon you’ll find yourself just going around in circles. Marriage is a commitment made by two persons, so each of you better be willing to grab an oar. That's how you save a marriage.
How Do I Get My Wife To Forgive Me? Read the 10 most important things that you can do to keep your marriage together after infidelity has impacted your relationship.